How to Make Your Couples Session Feel Like a Date (Because It Totally Should!)
Spoiler alert: your photo session doesn't have to feel like standing still and forcing a smile. It can (and should) feel like a date night with your favorite person!

Whoever said photo shoots have to be stiff, awkward, or full of "cheesy prom poses" clearly hasn't hung out with me! 😉 Here's the truth: your couples session isn't just about the photos (though, trust me, they'll be gorgeous). It's about creating a memory together, one that feels just as fun and cozy as your favorite date night.
So, if you're ready to skip the stiff smiles and actually enjoy your session, here are five ways to make your photo shoot feel like the best date ever!
1). Pick a Location That Means Something to You
Sure, I know of dreamy fields, hidden trails, and urban corners in Northwest Arkansas (and I'm always down to suggest a few favorites). But if you want your photos to feel so you, think about spots that hold meaning.
- Where you had your first date.
- A trail you've conquered together.
- That downtown spot where you love to stroll.
When you're in a place you love, you'll naturally feel more relaxed and connected, and that shows in every photo!
2). Treat It Like You're Already on a Date
Here's a pro tip: don't just book the shoot and call it a day. Plan around it!
Grab dinner afterward. Pack a picnic to bring with you. Swing by your favorite brewery or ice cream shop when we're done.
Think of your session as the start of a whole night together, a little celebration of your love story. When you're in that "date night" mindset, the smiles, the laughter, the way you look at each other... it's all 100% real!
3). Dress to Impress (But Stay Comfortable)
Northing kills the vibe like being stuck in an outfit that doesn't feel like you. Choose something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and ready to move.
Instead of matching, think coordinating, colors that complement each other without feel to "twinsies". In the fall, cozy layers and boots are always a win. In the spring, think flowy dresses and light neutrals.
The goal: outfits that look good, feel good, and let you twirl, cuddle, or run hand-in-hand without worry.
4). Bring a Little Something Extra
Want to make your photos even more fun (and more you)? Bring something to do together!
- Pop a bottle of champagne.
- Bring a blanket for snuggles.
- Toss in your guitar for an impromptu music sesh.
- Yes, your dog is totally invited.
Little extras like this help you focus on each other instead of the camera, and they make for fun, natural shots that feel like real life.
5). Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
This is the big one. Don't worry about "posing" perfectly, that's my job. Your job? Be present with each other.
I'll guide you with fun prompts (like whispering your silliest secret or running toward each other like it's a movie scene). These little interactions bring out genuine laughs, sweet moments, and the kind of photos you'll treasure forever.
When you're lost in each other, the camera fades away, and that's where the magic happens!
Your Session = Your Love Stoy
At the end of the day, your couples session should feel like more than just "taking pictures". It should feel like a celebration of the life you're building together, right here, right now.
So let's make it fun! Let's make it romantic! Let's make it your best date yet! 💕





